“True belonging doesn’t require us to change who we are; it requires us to be who we are.

— Brené Brown

Building community through the years…

Everywhere I’ve lived, I've always sought to be a part of something bigger than myself.

More than just networking, community is a way to put down roots and really feel a part of the people and place that you are growing in. 

1990s

📍Buffalo, NY

When I first moved away from my hometown with my new little babies, I started a playgroup by advertising in the local paper.

📍Cincinnati, OH

Upon my next move to the midwest, I put a flyer in over 60 mailboxes to start a bookclub, which lasted well after I moved.

2000s

📍Westport, CT

When our family moved east, I was involved with and eventually became President of New Neighbors—a group serving over 400 families.

2010s

📍Milford, CT

After my kids were grown, I moved to a new town and started a Ladies Night Out. LNO began with 5 of us and has grown to over 40 women who still meet monthly.

A snippet from September 2021

Appearing as a guest on my friend Donna Cimarelli’s livestream show: Speak Your Mind Value Your Voice.

We discuss small acts of kindness and building a life you love.

…and building community today!

📍Belgrade Lakes, ME

In 2020, I bought the old town Schoolhouse in Belgrade Lakes, which had been abandoned for 15 years.

I renovated the space and split it into two sections: one portion was available for Airbnb rental, while the other was reserved for use as a Classroom for locals.

In the two years that I ran the Schoolhouse, we used the Classroom for everything from writing groups to Culinary Club to book clubs and more.

At one of our events, a local fell in love with the Schoolhouse and wanted to make it their forever home. ❤️

Photos of the Schoolhouse renovation…

…and the finished product!

Here are some of the local friends that make up my community in Belgrade Lakes.

  • Wicked Good Elderberry

    Wicked good shop run by my friend Kristin. They sell locally made crafts, foods, and other wares. Stop in to find some of my SophistiKateME products!

  • 7 Lakes Alliance

    Amazing local resource for supporting land and water conservation in our beautiful town. Tons of cool events and classes all year round.

  • Oliver & Friends Bookshop

    It’s a real treat to have a such a well-stocked bookstore in our little downtown. Run by my friend Renee, with books and gifts aplenty.

  • Day's Store

    A Belgrade Lakes mainstay, Day’s has been around since 1958 offering grocery staples, souvenirs, and summer ice cream and concerts.

  • Hello, Good Pie

    Delectable treats, both sweet and savory. A great spot to grab breakfast, lunch, or dessert, with a spacious patio for summertime snacking.

  • Remedy Salon & Spa

    Jessica and Max are masters of well-being and self care. Remedy has excellent services for hair, nails, massage, and more.

Of course, my ultimate community is my family. ❤️

Tyler, Cory, me, Nick, Ellie, Audrey